I have a spider bite by my eye?

okay so i woke up with a tiny bump and then it got worse and my mom told me to squeeze the poison out so i did and it seems like it made it worse!?! its RIGHT under my eye so it like messes up my eye and i feel like i have a black eye. Its really bothering me. i put peroxide on it and was really careful not to get in in my eye. what else can i do to make the swelling go down? should i put like a tea bag on it or a warm washcloth or an icepack or something else?! i need the swelling gone ASAP! please help! 10 points?